How do I unmatch someone?

Updated · iPhone and Android

Open the chat, tap the ⋯ menu at the top and choose Unmatch. The match and the chat disappear for both of you, and you won't see each other again.

From a chat

  1. Open the chat.
  2. Tap the menu at the top.
  3. Tap Unmatch [name], then confirm with Unmatch.

From the Chats list

Swipe the conversation to the left and tap Unmatch.

Good to know

  • Unmatching also blocks the person. You won't see each other in any mode again.
  • The chat disappears for both of you right away. We keep it hidden for 30 days so it can still be reported, then delete it.
  • If the person broke our rules, choose Report instead — it also ends the match. How to report.

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